Well, at least I have some good sexy thoughts anyways…

A week before I went into the hospital to have my baby, a woman I used to work with asked if I were having my tubes tied after this baby. I said yes, it’s definitely time for that. She replied, “Well, I hope you won’t have the same problem I did”. “What problem?”, I asked. “I lost my sex drive after I had my tubes tied”, she said.

Now yeah, I know… women like to scare the crap out of each other when it comes to birthing babies. They tell their horror stories with glee. But this SCARED ME. I thought… well damn, I barely GOT my sex drive back when I got pregnant. I’m screwed if I lose it for good!

I came home thinking about this, and wondering. Now, this woman has had 4 kids of her own, plus is married to a man who has 3 or 4 of his own. That’s a whole lotta kids to be keeping track of. No wonder she has no sex drive! LOL

Still, I kept it in the back of my mind. I knew I needed to do it, though.

I’m happy to report that I’ve suffered no such loss of sex drive. Obviously, I can’t *do* anything right now; between the incision, the bleeding, the KID … it’s just not gonna happen yet (I gave birth 2 weeks ago). BUT I think about it *EG* I grab hubby’s bits when the idea strikes … and I tell him about the things I can’t wait to do to him when I’m back in my own skin. Things like I can’t wait to straddle him again, being able to fuck him the way I like. Being able to lay on my stomach again, having him lay on top of me, his teeth on my neck, his breath in my ear. Yep, I can’t wait!